Sex positions to get orgasm

All of the men that I know say that every woman that they've ever had sex with has had a vaginal orgasm—meaning that they climaxed through penetration alone—and yet none of the women I know have ever actually had one, even though it's pretty high up on all of our bucket lists. Which bring me to the question at hand: how does a woman actually achieve a vaginal orgasm? My personal experience is corroborated by research, as one study found that 67 percent of women fake orgasm during sex. One of the most interesting aspects of the study is that it pinned the blame for this on a "sexual script" that mandated that "men are responsible for women's orgasms. Club , a newly-opened sexual education center in New York City. One of the most incredible and empowering lessons that I came away with was that, to a large extent, a woman's ability to have a vaginal orgasm depends on her, not the man.

Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Note: While many of these directions reference male partners, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone.

According to research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine , vaginal and clitoral orgasms are separate sensations. Interest in testing out new positions actually makes a big difference in her pleasure and her arousal, explains Jen Landa, M. From here, she should bend her right leg around the right side of your waist—allowing full access to her vagina. This position is an upgrade from standard missionary because this sets you up for deeper penetration and allows you to slow your roll.

If a woman's anatomy were Disney World not to make Disney kinky or anything And her G-spot, a little hotspot deeper inside her, ahem, "park," would be Epcot: definitely worth a visit, but slightly less exciting on its own. The G-spot orgasm is, sad to say, less reliable than the clitoral type—but it's quite magical if you're able to get there or better yet, experience both at once, via a blended orgasm. Quick anatomy lesson: Your G-spot is actually part of the whole structure of your clitoris , which extends three to five inches inside you along the vaginal canal.