Preparing daughter for fisting

A lot of people hear the word 'fisting' and are immediately horrified. And we kind of can't blame them considering the majority of pornography depicting fisting is a teensy bit intimidating. If fisting either giving or receiving is something you're curious about though, please know it doesn't have to be as aggressive as you might see in porn - although if that's how you like it, it totally can be. Everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, can get pleasure from receiving and giving - and both the vagina and anus can be fisted if done safely. So to do it safely, you need to take it very slowly and, most importantly, use lots of lube. And always be sure to wash your hands, "sex is always safer if you are clean and it reduces the risk of infection," she adds.

People can be squeamish about putting big things inside of their vaginas or anuses, and rightfully so. The idea of putting a giant dildo , a big penis , or even an entire fist inside of you can be intimidating. Fisting, in particular, seems to be shrouded in a unique kind of taboo, which is unfortunate — if people knew more about the sex practice, more people who'd be into it would be able to enjoy it. If the idea of fisting is intriguing to you, there's no reason to let fear or sex negativity stop you from trying it out.

Rest assured though, my fisting friends did I really just say that? So here goes — but before we get into the guide, here are a couple of things to think about:. Both also tend to numb the area — what feels bloody marvellous at the time, hurts like hell the next day. Stop if it does and if there is any sign of blood.

The sexual practice known as fisting, which involves inserting a whole hand into the vagina or butt, had always seemed like a punchline to me, a word you might see played in Cards Against Humanity that causes everyone to burst into uproarious laughter. Once, when I went to a truck stop sex toy store, I was by far the most amused by the large rubber arms with hands clenched into fists. Why would anyone buy this?